How would you feel if someone had the ability to take away your life? Before you even got to have a say in it? Before you were even born. Well that’s what happens with babies who are still in their moms womb. They basically get their whole future demolished they never got chance to become someone in life. I believe abortion is wrong when you are committing it for a selfish reason and I will give you some reasons as to why I think this way.
For one because the babies heart is already starting to beat by the time you are able to even have an abortion the time. A baby’s heartbeat starts within the first 6 weeks of fertilization. Not only that but as soon as the egg and the sperm conceive its starts to develop therefore its already a little person.They can feel the abortion.According to mccl.org some anatomical studies have shown that the bodys pain network is established within the first twenty weeks of pregnancy. The babys brain has a full compliment of brain cells that are present within at 20 weeks of fertilization therefore its ready to receive pain signals from the body. Medical evidence proves that the unborn fetus experiences pain as it tries to move away from the pain.
Also, its not only harming the baby but its harming the mom not only physically but mentally and emotionally according to americanpregnancy.org woman that had an abortion were interviewed and said that after the abortion they have felt anger, regret, and guilt. Some woman said that after abortion they have fell into depression because they got so used to feeling the baby inside of them that after they get an abortion they start to feel lonely, isolation, and they feel ashame because they can’t believe they have taken their babies life . Like okay I get that maybe some women get raped and they develope hate towards the fetus but it’s not the babies fault they did nothing whatsoever there are so many women who can’t have babies that wish they could have one and never get the chance to experience it. So if women don’t want their baby they can put it up for adoption and let someone who really wants a baby adopt it and gave him/her the love they weren’t able to give them.
One of the things that makes me extremely upset is when young teens get pregnant to keep a guy by their sides but end up having an abortion because the guy leaves them. Like first the guy is definitely not gonna stay special at a young age they want to have fun not stay stuck to a girl just because they have a baby. I respect a guy who is willing to drop everything to be with a woman who he get pregnant but its like extremely rare. Secondly you are going to feel horrible after you do it because not only will you be losing the guy you love that you were trying to make stay but you are also losing the baby you carried inside the one you start to love because of the guy . You will most likely start to feel lonely, you will feel guilty and you will most likely start to feel dumb because you’re gonna be thinking wow did I really do this over guy and that eventually you’re gonna find who loves you and you’re going to end up having trust issues its going to hurt them soo much. It’s just so sad to see that so many of us girls fall for things guys dont mean they just say things to get what they want and dont realize how much pain they are going to put the girl in.
My last reason (out of so many) is that I see it as a legal murder and this is where so many people disagree. The reason for the way I think is because I have grown up with my parents always talking about pregnancy being so precious and how its wrong. Like I had said in my previous paragraphs the baby is already growing its already alive. See and thats where some people see it differently some women see the baby as a growing piece of tissue and thats just what the were taught when they were younger my way of see abortion is a legal murder but thats just me.
I believe we could lower the rate of abortion by informing woman what they are doing to her body and make woman who have a had an abortion before talk to them and tell this how it was after how hard , painful and how they feel now. A way we could make a guy think twice before he does things is somehow make him see how much he is hurting the girl or put a scenario in which later on he had a daughter and we would like ask him if he would want some guy to do that to his daughter. Like tell her what she wants to hear to get what he want . Would he like to see his little girl stuck in a situation like that? I’m sure that would actually make him think about things and maybe then we would live in a world where we respected each other and we wouldn’t do things just for fun.
Now I personally believe abortion is wrong especially when its done for a selfish reason, but i’m not here to say that its bad for you to have a different idea its just my opinion and how I see things. Like I said before I realize that many women do this because they were raped and they feel so much anger cause they think they are going to see the face of the guy that raped them, but there are other options like adoption they would be making someone so happy if they could give them something they never got a chance to have. Once again I dont think its fair that the fetus has no say in it and that someone can chose to end their life without letting the baby become someone in life.